DOMESTIC VIOLENCE PREVENTION & AWARENESS MONTH
October is observed as National Domestic Violence Awareness Month. This initiative was started in 1981 by the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence as a Day of Unity to connect battered women’s advocates across the United States. Now in its 41st year, individuals and communities across our nation join together during this month in a strategic effort to raise awareness of domestic violence as a public health issue that impacts individuals of all identities, and educate others on how they can take action to advocate for change, intervene to stop acts of domestic violence from occurring, and support those who are impacted.
Domestic violence is a type of interpersonal violence that someone can experience at any point in the life course – as a child, adolescent, young adult, adult, or as an elder. It includes any act of threatened, attempted, or completed violence that occurs:
- Between current or former spouses or intimate partners
- Between individuals who share a child in common
- Between individuals who are living with, or had lived with, each other as spouses or intimate partners
- By a person who is similarly situated to a spouse under the domestic or family violence laws that govern the jurisdiction where the violence & abuse occurred
- Any person, such as a parent, guardian, cohabitant, or spouse, who harms an adult or child, where the adult or child is protected from violence & abuse under domestic violence or family laws (e.g. child abuse, sibling abuse, incest, etc.).
Domestic violence may include instances of sexual assault, stalking, physical abuse, economic or emotional abuse, including behaviors that are intended to intimidate, manipulate, humiliate, or isolate someone. It may also include acts or threats against family members, friends, pets, or property.
The term domestic violence may spark images of something that happens later in life, such as when people are married or living together. However, it is important to understand that this issue affects undergraduate and graduate/professional students. While our Texas A&M University campus and surrounding community are safe places to learn, work, and live, Aggies are still impacted by power-based personal violence. In the most recent Association of American Universities Survey on Sexual Assault and Misconduct (2019), we know the following from students at Texas A&M who participated:
- 12.9% experienced intimate partner violence
- 27% of undergraduate and 17.6% of graduate women; 7.2% of undergraduate and 2.3% of graduate men; 14.7% of transgender, queer, and non-binary students, experienced at least one type of sexual assault due to physical force or incapacitation
- 42.7% experienced sexual harassment from another student, faculty or staff member
- 19.4% experienced stalking
Domestic violence may still occur between college students who are sharing a residence with an abusive parent, guardian, family member, or sibling. It may also impact students who live with an intimate partner, regardless of whether they are married or have a child together. Within Federal Title IX regulations, it may also include any type of violence between roommates on campus property.
We invite our Texas A&M and surrounding communities to engage in open discussion and learning opportunities this October to better support themselves and others, critically evaluate some of the messages that we receive about healthy vs. unhealthy relationships, and understand how experiencing violence & abuse intersects with other public health issues. If you or someone you know is being impacted by domestic violence & abuse, we encourage you to contact Twin City Mission, Domestic Violence Services at 979-775-5355 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233. These lines are confidential and available 24/7.
Additional Resources
- Baylor Scott & White Medical Center. This is the only medical center in Brazos Valley that currently has 24/7 on call forensic nurses. Survivors who are seeking medical care and may want to pursue a forensic exam are encouraged to go here, to minimize retraumatization. The Sexual Assault Resource Center dispatches a state-certified advocate to provide trauma-informed support during the hospital intake and medical processes.
- Scotty's House. Contact for support with any suspected or known instance of child abuse & neglect.
- Sexual Assault Resource Center of Brazos Valley. Contact for support with any instance of sexual violence.
- Unbound Bryan College-Station. Contact for support with any suspected or known human trafficking in Brazos Valley.
- Texas A&M Counseling & Psychological Services. Texas A&M students: contact for more information on individualized counseling, and support groups for survivors.
These agencies work together with Twin City Mission, Domestic Violence Services, and other state & national organizations, to provide protections to anyone who has experienced or witnessed violence & abuse.
Sources:
Association of American Universities, Survey on Sexual Assault and Misconduct (2019). Texas A&M University Report.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (2020). Violence Prevention.
Texas A&M University, Department of Civil Rights and Equity Investigations (2022). Glossary of Terms.
US Department of Justice, Office on Violence Against Women (2020). Domestic Violence.
Books That Speak Out
Health Promotion has partnered with Texas A&M Libraries to host Books That Speak Out: Domestic Violence Prevention and Awareness Month physical and virtual resource displays. These displays direct you to books, journals, documentaries, podcasts, national organizations and movements, and resources related to experiencing & surviving domestic abuse, dating abuse, and intimate partner violence & abuse. You will find everything from policy to self-care, and personal narratives to poetry, that is applicable to survivors and allies of all identities.
Date/Time: October 1-31
Books That Speak Out LibGuide: tx.ag/BooksThatSpeakOut
Physical Displays: Business Library & Collaboration Commons (BLCC), October 1-31; Evans Library, October 15-31
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: Texas A&M University Libraries and Texas A&M Health Promotion
Love Labyrinth Workshop
Created by the One Love Foundation, Love Labyrinth is a film that shows how emotionally abusive behaviors, like gaslighting and volatility, can make someone feel like they’re trapped in a maze and unable to get out. For October and November 2022, trained facilitators in Health Promotion are offering this one-hour workshop by request to any campus group or organization that would like to engage with this important, evidence-based content.
Audience: Students, faculty and staff
Request Form: tx.ag/LoveLabyrinth
Sponsored by: The One Love Foundation and Texas A&M Health Promotion
National Day of Unity
The first Monday of October is recognized as the National Day of Unity, which honors the origin of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Join Health Promotion and other offices & organizations, as we help our community understand the history and ongoing significance of domestic violence prevention, response, and advocacy. We empower our Aggie community to share their reasons for supporting prevention & awareness using #DVPAMTAMU and tagging @TAMUHealthPromotion on Instagram, Twitter, or Facebook. We also encourage our campus and community to share Health Promotion’s post which will go live on our accounts at 9am on October 3.
Date: Monday, October 3, all day social media observance
Audience: Everyone
Healing With Friends: Trauma-Informed Yoga
Health Promotion and Rec Sports have partnered on this event since 2019, to recognize the importance of physical wellness, emotional wellness, and resilience as a part of violence prevention education. This event features a one-hour trauma-informed yoga class, self-care strategies, and information about campus & community resources. Participants may choose to attend in person at the Rec Center or through Zoom, and privacy will be protected in both formats. It is a space that welcomes survivors of abuse, their friends, allies, and anyone who wants to simply learn more, connect, and be involved. This event is free and open to anyone (A&M and the community), regardless of yoga skill level.
Date and Time: Wednesday, October 5, 6:00-7:00pm
Location: Rec Sports 2229 and Zoom
Address: 187 Corrington Dr, College Station, TX 77843
Parking: Visitor parking or any valid A&M parking permit after 5pm (West Campus Garage, Lots 100A-J)
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored by: Texas A&M Rec Sports and Texas A&M Health Promotion
Registration Required: tx.ag/HealingWithFriends
Step In Stand Up Mini Session
Aligned with the Texas A&M Step In Stand Up Campaign to end sexual violence, the Mini Session provides basic knowledge and skill on how to step in to stop acts of power-based personal violence with a Green Dot Bystander Intervention virtual overview, and how to stand up to support survivors through a STAND Up Trauma-Informed Care virtual overview. Participants can choose to attend Green Dot only, STAND Up only, or both sessions.
Date and Time: Tuesday, October 11, 9:00-10:30am (Green Dot Virtual Overview) and 11:00am-12:00pm (STAND Up Virtual Overview)
Location: Zoom (Virtual Instruction)
Audience: Texas A&M Faculty & Staff
Sponsored by: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Registration Required: tx.ag/SISUWorkshops
Deconstructing Masculinity Workshop
Join us for a workshop that looks at the important connection between gender and relationship health. Deconstructing Masculinity is a unique workshop at Texas A&M that dives into a nonjudgmental, real, and organic discussion about masculinity and where that concept is positioned in the way we perceive and react to experiences of abuse. Participants will discuss how from a young age, many men are told to act in a certain way that appears strong, unbreakable, and stoic. Facilitators will break down the messages that boys and young men receive, and how these then influence relationships, consent, and our sense of masculinity in adulthood. We will also discuss how masculinity impacts the way we conceptualize and respond to femininity and those who identity as non-binary.
Date and Time: Wednesday, October 12, 6:00-7:30pm
Location: Student Services Building (SSB) 308
Audience: Students
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Registration Required: tx.ag/DeconstructingMasculinity
Community Conversations: Power and Control in Abusive Relationships
Join us for a conversation with our local domestic violence response agency, Twin City Mission Domestic Violence Services (Phoebe’s Home). During this discussion, we will define the Power and Control Wheel and how that has served as a foundational representation of understanding relationship violence, the different types of abuses one could witness or experience in a violent relationship, and escalation of abuse.
Date and Time: Wednesday, October 12, 6:30-7:00pm
Watch Live on Instagram: @tamuhealthpromotion
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Green Dot Virtual Overview
The Green Dot Overview, which is administered as a part of our larger Green Dot Bystander Intervention program on campus, is intended to provide basic knowledge and strategies for how to safely & effectively intervene when witnessing an act of power-based personal violence. Participants will identify warning signs of sexual violence, dating violence, domestic violence, and stalking; become more self-aware of barriers that prevent them from taking action; explore intervention strategies that are realistic for them in different contexts; identify pro-social behaviors to use in every day practice that establish norms that are intolerant of violence.
Date and Time: Thursday, October 13, 7:00-8:30pm
Location: Zoom (Virtual Instruction)
Audience: Texas A&M Students
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Registration Required: tx.ag/GreenDotWorkshop
Silent! at The Disco
Reward your body and mind with Silent! at the Disco cardio dance class, sponsored by Rec Sports to enhance confidence and support physical, mental, and social well-being in honor of Domestic Violence Prevention & Awareness Month.
Date and Time: Wednesday, October 19, 6:00-7:00pm
Location: Student Rec Center, 2229
Address: 187 Corrington Dr, College Station, TX 77843
Parking: Visitor parking or any valid A&M parking permit after 5pm (West Campus Garage, Lots 100A-J)
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Rec Sports
Registration Required: tx.ag/SilentAtTheDisco22
Community Conversations: Healthy vs. Unhealthy Conflict
Join us for a conversation with Texas A&M Counseling & Psychological Services. During this discussion, we will acknowledge that healthy conflict is indeed part of a functional, healthy relationship with others and understand how that is different from conflict that one might see in unhealthy relationships. We will also provide strategies on how to address conflict in a healthy way, especially with competing references in popular culture that tend to normalize unhealthy or toxic communication strategies.
Date and Time: Wednesday, October 19, 6:30-7:00pm
Watch Live on Instagram: @tamuhealthpromotion
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Purple Thursday
Nationally recognized in the United States as a part of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Purple Thursday aims to stop all forms of relationship violence and abuse through education, awareness, and systemic change. It also promotes resources and shows support for those impacted by this public health issue.
Wear purple, the designated awareness color, on October 20 to show your support for Domestic Violence Prevention, not just in October but all year. Share a photo on social media and tell us why and how you care about this initiative. Use the hashtags #DVPAMTAMU and #TAMUPurpleThursday, and tag Texas A&M Health Promotion in your posts.
Date: Thursday, October 20, All Day Social Media Campaign
Location: Instagram, Twitter, Facebook
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Green Dot Bystander Intervention Training
Green Dot Bystander Intervention Training equips participants with advanced knowledge and tools to be responsibly reactive and proactive in sustaining norms on our campus that are intolerant of violence. Participants will connect more consciously to their opinions regarding the role and responsibility of the bystander; recognize behaviors associated with sexual violence, dating violence, domestic violence, and stalking; recognize barriers that may prevent them from intervening; develop realistic intervention strategies given their unique set of barriers; understand the basic elements of culture change and engage others in this change through their social networks/spheres of influence.
Date and Time: Sunday, October 23, 1:00-4:30pm
Location: Student Services Building (SSB) 308
Audience: Texas A&M Students
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Registration Required: tx.ag/GreenDotWorkshop
Exploring Relationships Through Pop Culture
With all the advances in technology, our society has access to multiple outlets of media at their fingertips. Many of the messages about relationships dynamics that we receive are false, or can be misinterpreted as healthy when they actually have negative impacts on our relationships. Join us for a program that looks at different forms of media, debunks myths about relationship health vs. abusive behaviors, and helps participants better understand the real components of a healthy relationship.
Date and Time: Tuesday, October 25, 6:00-7:30pm
Location: Student Services Building (SSB) 308
Audience: Students
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion, Texas A&M LGBTQ+ Pride Center, and the Texas A&M Women's Resource Center
Registration Required: tx.ag/PopCultureRelationships
Community Conversations: Leaving an Abusive Relationship
Join us for a conversation with Scotty’s House, our local nonprofit Child Advocacy Center. During this discussion, we will focus on specific reasons why it becomes difficult and unsafe for survivors of relationship violence to leave their abusers, taking into consideration multiple factors that impact children, family norms or expectations, isolation, and access to personal & financial resources. We will also provide ways that someone could engage in trauma-informed support to a survivor, and how that looks when what we want for them doesn’t align with the choices they want or need to make for themselves.
Date and Time: Wednesday, October 26, 6:30-7:00pm
Watch Live on Instagram: @tamuhealthpromotion
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
STAND Up Virtual Overview
The STAND Up Virtual Overview, which is administered as a part of our larger STAND Up Trauma-Informed Care initiative on campus, is intended to provide general information about the impacts of trauma related to experiencing power-based personal violence, and basic knowledge of trauma-informed response & relevant resources.
Date and Time: Wednesday, October 26, 7:00-8:00pm
Location: Zoom (Virtual Instruction)
Audience: Texas A&M Students
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Registration Required: tx.ag/StandUpWorkshop
Friday Night Circle: Family Dynamics and Domestic Violence Prevention
Health Promotion has partnered with the Islamic Community of Bryan-College Station (ICBCS) to discuss the need to talk about domestic violence prevention from a religiously competent standpoint. Join us at the ICBCS to hear from qualified Islamic therapists about family dynamics and how to prevent domestic violence and abuse.
Date and Time: Friday, October 28, 7:00pm
Location: Islamic Community of Bryan College Station (ICBCS)
Address: 417 Stasney St, College Station, TX 77840
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: ICBCS
STAND Up Trauma-Informed Care Training
The STAND Up Training is designed to assist individuals in learning positive and helpful ways to have conversations with those who have been involved in a traumatic event related to power-based personal violence. The workshop provides information about sexual assault, dating violence, domestic violence, and stalking; social perspectives; the impacts of trauma on the brain; listening techniques; tools for mandated reporters; and campus and community resources.
Date and Time: Sunday, November 6, 1:00-4:30pm
Location: Student Services Building (SSB) 308
Audience: Texas A&M Students
Sponsored By: Texas A&M Health Promotion
Registration Required: tx.ag/StandUpWorkshop
SLIDE Presents: True Life
Hear the true, unabridged stories from the brave survivors who have persevered through the atrocities of sexual assault. SLIDE Sexual Assault Awareness (SAAM) subcommittee takes the lead in coordinating one of their most impactful events of the year, which brings together survivors, a diverse panel of experts who support prevention, response, and advocacy, and local resource providers.
Date and Time: Monday, November 7, 7:00-9:00pm
Location: Rudder Auditorium
Audience: Everyone
Sponsored By: Sophomore Leaders Impacting, Developing, and Educating (SLIDE)